- April 24th
The Top 7 Challenges for Single Fathers in 2023Being a single father can be incredibly rewarding, but it can also be incredibly challenging. Single fathers often face a unique set of issues that can cause a great deal of frustration and stress. Here are some of the biggest frustrations that single fathers experience these days, along with some solutions. - March 26th
Our 7-Point List of Co-Parenting Boundaries: Points 5, 6 & 7Our list of co-parenting boundaries provides you with a 7-point list of boundaries to help you create a civil, stable, and even cooperative co-parenting relationship. This is really important for all involved - you, your kids, and your co-parent - because it provides structure and a stable framework upon which everybody can rely and know what to expect. Below are the final points, points 5, 6, and 7. - March 23rd
Our 7-Point List of Co-Parenting Boundaries: Points 3 & 4Our list of co-parenting boundaries provides you with a 7-point list to help draw clear boundaries, defining and refining your co-parenting relationship such that both co-parents can have clear expectations. While co-parenting can be and often is challenging, it gets smoother and easier when you and your ex have a set of clear guidelines to follow. Here are points 3 and 4 of our 7-point list of co-parenting boundaries to set in place in order to co-parent effectively and to ensure healthy, happy children, and stress-free (or at least stress-light) co-parenting. - March 21st
Our 7-Point List of Co-Parenting Boundaries to Ensure Happy Healthy Kids: Points 1 & 2Co-parenting can be challenging at first, but with a good list of co-parenting boundaries you may be surprised at how easy it can get. Boundaries foster respect for each other, set the ground rules for realistic expectations, and sustain a healthy co-parenting balance that allows your child to continue being happy and healthy. The following co-parenting boundaries can help you and your co-parent have an easier and more straightforward co-parenting relationship, and will help protect your child from the fallout of your divorce or separation. - March 14th
How to Find an Attorney for Fathers Rights in 2023In theory fathers have the same rights as mothers when it comes to custody and parenting time with their children. However, fathers oftentimes face challenges in asserting these rights, particularly if they are involved in a contentious divorce or custody battle. In such cases it's helpful to seek the assistance of an attorney who specializes in fathers' rights. Here are some updated tips for how to find a good attorney for fathers' rights. - March 10th
What is a Fathers Rights AttorneyA father’s rights attorney is a lawyer who specializes in representing fathers in cases related to child custody, parenting time, and support. These attorneys help fathers navigate the complexities of family law and ensure that their legal rights and interests are protected during a divorce, separation, or other legal action involving their child or children. - February 13th
8 Ways to Celebrate Valentine’s Day with Your Kids When You Can’t Be TogetherValentine's Day is a special occasion that is all about love and affection, but many single dads are unable to celebrate the day with their kids in person. However, just because you can't be together in person doesn't mean you can't still make the day special for your kids. Here are some ideas for how to celebrate Valentine's Day with your kids remotely. - February 8th
What are a Father’s Rights to His Child in 2023?What are a father's rights to his children? 'Father's rights' refers to the legal protections that a father has with respect to his child. While many people believe that mothers have a more significant role in a child's life, fathers also have an important role and rights that must be recognized and protected, not just for dad, but for the child or children too. Here are the key rights that a father has with regards to his child. - February 3rd
The State of Fathers Rights and Child Custody in 2023Fathers' rights to child custody have been a contentious issue for many years, with debates about the extent to which fathers should be involved in the upbringing of their children. In the past, fathers were often considered secondary caregivers, with mothers being the primary custodians of children following divorce or separation. However, as attitudes towards gender roles and parenting have evolved, the legal landscape has also changed to reflect a more equal division of responsibilities between mothers and fathers. At least sometimes. - January 27th
A Father’s Rights for Child SupportWhat are a father's rights to child support? Some people may not realize that fathers have the same legal rights to child support as mothers. Child support is financial assistance provided by one parent to the other to help cover the expenses of raising a child. The purpose of child support is to ensure that a child has the financial resources they need to grow and thrive. - January 18th
How to Find a Father’s Rights Lawyer and What to Look For in a Fathers’ Rights AttorneyHere's how to find a father's rights lawyer, and also what to look for in a fathers' rights attorney. Of course, finding a father's rights attorney is just the first step, and doesn't guarantee that you'll find a good one, so we are also including what to look for in an attorney for dads, and even some questions to ask them when you meet with them. - January 13th
Some Reasons that Fathers are Treated Differently than Mothers in CustodyThere are many reasons that fathers are treated differently than mothers when it comes to custody and parenting time. And there are many societal factors that can influence how fathers are treated compared to mothers, even in countries where the law is supposed to treat them equally. Knowing what these factors are can help you to successfully address them.
- November 19th
The 3 Main Factors that Go Into a Fathers Rights for Overnight VisitsA fathers rights for overnight visits involve several factors. As such, a night-time parenting time schedule needs to take these into account, and is determined by the various factors such as the child’s age and the child’s schedule. Of course the best interest of the kids is also very important, so it's important to position overnight parenting time accordingly. Here are the three main factors that go into determining an overnight parenting time schedule for dad. - November 1st
The Abused Father: Co-Parenting After Domestic ViolenceCo-parenting after domestic violence is a sensitive, difficult subject, made even more so because many people don't realize that often the father who is co-parenting after domestic violence was the domestic violence victim. This is because men very rarely report being abused by the mother of their children, even though it happens nearly as often as the other way around. Here are a few top guidelines that can prepare an abused father for a successful co-parenting relationship. - October 25th
A Fathers Rights for Child Support Depends on These FactorsIf you are a single dad, or a soon-to-be single dad, it's a good idea to understand a fathers rights for child support, so you know what is required of you, and what you should expect. Under current family law each parent is required to support their children financially after a separation. Different states have formulas they follow to determine child support, and all of them use the following key factors. - October 17th
How To Ensure a Father’s Equal RightsHaving a fathers’ equal rights has always been in the best interests of the children. So the key to ensuring a father's equal rights is to demonstrate that dad has the best interest of the child at heart. After all, fathers' equal rights are really about the child's right to have a good relationship with their father as well as with their mother, and making sure that the child’s quality of life is not disrupted by the separation. - October 15th
3 Tips to Determine if a Fathers Rights Divorce Attorney Is the Right One for YouYou may need the services of a fathers rights divorce attorney for different reasons, such as requesting better child custody arrangements, or addressing child support payments. The perfect attorney is one who can represent your interests vigorously while still prioritizing the best interests of the kids. With so many family law attorneys out there marketing themselves as the best, finding the right one can be hard, but it doesn't have to be. These three tips will help you determine whether a particular fathers rights attorney is the right one for you. - October 7th
Co-parenting: Fathers Have Rights TooMany people in the society often think mothers have the upper hand when it comes to divorce and child custody bargains. And many see fathers as undeserving to be in the lives of their children after a divorce. But these are just misconceptions that are not based on facts. Fathers have rights too, and they should not be shut out by mothers, or courts for that matter. If you are going through a co-parenting arrangement process and are scared of being treated unfairly just because you are the father, it helps to understand that you have every right to continue playing an active role in your children’s lives, and that you are protected by the law. - October 1st
Is Co-parenting a Good Idea for Fathers?Most men dream of raising their children inside a happy, supportive family, and they pour their hearts out to their children as they grow. But sometimes divorce shatters the dream of a happy family under one roof. When this happens, kids are often the biggest victims. Co-parenting goes a long way towards reducing the impact of divorce on kids. It is true that co-parenting comes with its fair share of challenges. But beyond all the misunderstandings and frustrations, choosing co-parenting is one of the greatest decisions you could ever make post-divorce. - October 1st
Co-parenting in Colorado for the Good of Your KidsColorado divorce and co-parenting laws heavily lean towards reducing the likelihood of children suffering as a result of divorce. The law (Colo. Rev. Stat. § 14- 10- 124) recognizes the importance of the children remaining in contact with both parents, guided by a working arrangement. For instance, the law requires potential divorced persons to attend co-parenting classes before completing a separation whenever minors are in the picture. Here are some useful insights to help as you get ready to take part in co-parenting in Colorado. - August 20th
Need a Fathers Rights Helpline? Try One of These 9 Free HotlinesTrying to find a fathers rights helpline, especially in a time of need, can be daunting. You may already be stressed, or frustrated, and then trying to find a fathers rights helpline, let alone one that is legit, can add to the stress. Here are a few dads rights helplines that you can try. Keep in mind that most fathers rights hotlines can't give straight up legal advice, because they are not staffed by lawyers. However, if you need fathers rights legal advice, most fathers rights lawyers and law firms will give you either a free or low-cost consultation. If you do specifically need legal advice concerning fathers rights, we also list a few fathers' rights legal helplines maintained by lawyers and law firms at the end of this article, but do be aware that they are likely to soft-sell you to retain their firm. - June 17th
Father’s Day for Single Fathers – A Day to Celebrate Fatherhood No Matter WhatFather's Day for single fathers can bring mixed emotions. Fathers Day for single dads can be a reminder of what once was; of Fathers' Days past when dad was there in the mornings to greet the new day with their children, and at night to tuck them in. Or, Fathers Day for a single father may be looked forward to with joyful anticipation, if they get to spend Fathers Day with their child even after the disuniting of the family. Please remember that no matter whether you are able to spend this Father’s Day with your children or not, you are still, and always will be, their father. That is something that nobody can take away from you, ever. - June 8th
Is Child Support Tax Deductible? No, and Here’s Why.We often get asked is child support tax deductible, in other words is child support deductible on taxes? We also get asked can you claim taxes on child support. The answer to all of these is "no", you can't deduct child support paid from your gross income, nor does someone have to claim child support as income. Here's a plain English explanation as to why. - May 26th
How to Divorce Without Hurting Your Child: Step 2While it is impossible to break up or divorce without impacting your child or children, it is possible to break up or divorce without hurting your child. Children are most often hurt during the divorce process because their parents are blind and deaf to the damage that their own issues are doing to their child. It's so important to remember that you are breaking up with or divorcing the other parent, your children aren't. - May 26th
Do Child Support Payments Include Retirement Benefits or Financial Losses?We received a question regarding child support payments from a dad in Colorado. In addition to advising him to contact a child support lawyer in Colorado, we figured that we should share some general advice about child support payments, retirement benefits, and financial losses, as well as briefly explain the differences between a community property state and an equitable distribution state. - May 15th
Complete List of State Putative Father RegistriesThis is a complete list of the putative father registries of each state, current as of June, 2021. Several states do not maintain putative father registries, however some of those provide alternate means for putative fathers to register themselves as the father of their child. If you were never married to the mother of your child, and have not otherwise legally established your paternity, it is important to register your paternity of your child with your state as soon as you can. - May 15th
What is a Putative Father and a Putative Father Registry?If you're wondering "What is a putative father registry?" (or just what is a putative father generally), we're here to clear that up for you. The term "putative" means that the putative thing is generally considered to be, or reputed to be, whatever that thing is known to be. So in the case of a putative father it means that the person is generally considered to be the father. But in the legal world this isn't enough, a father's paternity must be legally recognized by the fact that the father was married to the child's mother when the child was conceived or born, or, if they were not married, then proven by legally recognized evidence, such as a DNA test. - May 12th
Unmarried Fathers Rights: How to Establish Parental Rights as an Unmarried FatherUnmarried fathers rights are not automatic, as unmarried fathers have an extra hurdle that must be cleared which married and separated or divorced fathers don't. As fathers' rights attorney Anne Mitchell explains, "In most states the rights of unmarried fathers don't even exist until the unmarried father is legally recognized as the father, and unless the father is already on the birth certificate this means that they must establish their paternity." - May 9th
How to Break Up or Divorce Without Hurting Your Child: Step 1We are often asked how to divorce or break up without hurting your child. In this series we share seven steps to help ensure that your children stay well adjusted after your divorce or break up, and are shielded from the fallout of your splitting up with their other parent.
- February 22nd
Angry at Your Ex? Here are Three Ways to Keep it From Affecting Your KidsCouple issues can easily boil over and affect your life in other areas. You have to be careful these problems don’t affect your relationship with your children. - February 20th
3 Winning Strategies to Get Increased Parenting TimeThere are a lot of custodial parents out there just begging their co-parents to take their kids more. There’s also a lot of non-custodial parents begging for more time with the kids. It seems like there should be an easy solution, right? Unfortunately, co-parenting paranoia can throw a wrench in the works. Here are three winning strategies to help you increase the amount of parenting time that you get with your kids. - February 15th
3 Tips to Keep Custody Exchanges from Becoming a NightmareSome co-parents are really good at pushing buttons, and there’s no worse time for playing these games than during a parenting time exchange. Having a yelling match with your child’s other parent in front of your children is not what you want. Ideally, you want the time they spend with you to begin and end on a happy note. So what can you do when your co-parent parent is spoiling for a fight? - February 7th
Dealing with Issues When You Work Full-Time and Your Ex Doesn’t Have a JobToo many single dads work too much, have limited time to share with their kids, and get put to shame for it by a co-parent who doesn’t have a job. Here's what to do about it. - February 6th
Will the IRS Take Your or Your Spouse’s Tax Refund for Past Due Child Support? Here’s What You Need to KnowTax season can be stressful and may be particularly fraught with headaches this year. You’ll be able to weather those challenges easier if you’re prepared. Before you file your taxes, check to see if there are offsets that will take money from your refund. - January 29th
Single Dads vs. Diapers: The Best Ways for Dads to Change Diapers on the GoSingle dads face complications when changing diapers on the go. Don’t let that be an obstacle to going places with your child. - January 19th
How to Get Your Kids Back Once They’re OverseasMilitary dads can prevent international parental kidnapping while they're deployed. - January 13th
DadsRights.org Starts New Facebook Group for Single Fathers Who Need SupportSince 1998, we’ve worked hard to be an online resource for single dads who needed advice and support. Now we have one more way of helping make that happen with our new Facebook group. - January 11th
2021 Stimulus Check Will Not Be Garnished for Child Support According to IRSIf you or your spouse lost out on the first stimulus payment due to child support debt, you won’t have to worry about your second payment being garnished. - January 5th
The Most-Read and Popular Fathers’ Rights Articles Read by Dads in 2020Reviewing the articles from the past year that got the most attention was somewhat surreal.
- December 17th
Maryland Legislators Considering Sweeping Anti-Dad Reforms to Child Custody LawsThe Maryland legislature is considering comprehensive child custody reform that could renew courtroom gender bias. - November 17th
Cutting Back on TV During a Pandemic? Experts Say It Could Reduce Parent’s StressWhile many parents have relied on TV to take off some of the emotional burdens of staying home during the pandemic, it may be causing more harm than good. A new study from the University of Arizona has linked increased TV watching with an increase in parent-child conflict and parental stress. - November 3rd
Iowa Dad Loses Parental Rights After Working Too MuchIn a system which often penalizes dads for not working overtime, the Iowa Supreme Court upheld the termination of a father’s parental rights for doing the exact opposite. - October 27th
More Dads Staying Home and Being At-Home Parents as Pandemic Changes Social NormsAs Covid closed down businesses across the country, researchers noted a confusing trend. Even in households where women were earning more than men, moms were choosing to leave the workforce to look after their children. But in some situations, the practical constraints of the pandemic forced families to confront the social bias against fathers that has lasted for decades. - October 22nd
Judge Jails Two Teens for Refusing to Spend Time with DadPhysical and mental health risks aside, it’s important to note that neither boy committed a crime in Ohio. Criminalizing teens who avoid their parents doesn't help families bond. - October 1st
The Best TikTok PSA We’ve SeenThere is a trend on TikTok right now to post PSAs to the tune of "If You're Happy" and this is by far the best one we've seen! - September 23rd
Three Ways Fathers Can Nurture Their SonsThere’s been a lot of traction on social media lately regarding how fathers can nurture their daughters -- but what about their sons? Boys have emotional needs as well. - August 25th
Children of Single Fathers Succeed in School When Dad Takes PartRecently, the U.S. Department of Education conducted a study that made it clear that single dads’ efforts have a big impact on grades and attitude when it comes to education, regardless of how much parenting time they have. - August 17th
Relationship Problems That Can Hurt Your Custody EffortsUnfortunately, some of the most prevalent issues that lead to divorce also affect co-parenting if they aren’t addressed. Here are three common problems to keep an eye on when working together with your ex for the sake of the kids... - August 6th
Angry Mother Tries to Kill Ex During Custody Exchange, Murders Their Child InsteadUndra Henderson fought hard to keep his child safe. The system let them down time and time again. Their story isn’t unique enough for you to let your guard down. If you’re at all worried about your safety, take these extra steps to protect yourself and your child. - July 31st
Single Father Adopts, Reunites Five Siblings Under Age FiveLamont Thomas never planned to foster children, but when his friends lost their child to the system he felt compelled to step up and care for their son. Then came more kids in need. - July 22nd
Dads Face-Off With Sharks, Bears to Keep Their Kids Safe This SummerForget about unemployment, the pandemic and other everyday worries. Some dads are literally fending off bear and shark attacks to keep their kids alive. - July 17th
‘Operation Pay Up’ Arrests Dads Whether They’re Delinquent on Child Support or NotOperation Pay Up claims to target parents who are willfully behind on child support payments, but it doesn't live up to that promise. - June 21st
An Acknowledgment of Father’s Day 2020 from DadsRights.orgOur society has a long way to go in respecting dads of all kinds, but we see you. We’re proud of you. We hope you’re proud of you too. - June 19th
Don’t Let Facebook Connections Influence Your Child Custody CaseWhen parties to a lawsuit use social media to connect with key individuals involved with a court case, it can lead to disruptions, overturned rulings and increased costs. - June 3rd
Arizona Child Support Services Plundering Unemployment Payments, Misplacing ExcessArizona's Child Support Services are withdrawing several times more what they're owed from men's unemployment and losing track of the money. - May 27th
Are You Ready? CDC School Recommendations Signal a Need for New Childcare OptionsCDC recommendations for reopening schools could lead to big changes to needs for childcare and could help some dads get more time with their kids. - May 12th
How to Avoid Losing Your Temper in Three Easy StepsShelter orders are adding extra stress to our lives. Keep your cool with these simple three steps to anger management for parents. - May 2nd
Changing Attitudes on Back Child Support Debts Are Creating New Resources for Dads in NeedFacebook is becoming an unlikely source of help for single dads who are searching for affordable housing, medicine and other necessities. - April 13th
How COVID-19 is Affecting Non-Custodial Parents, Parenting Time, and Child SupportThe country is on lockdown and posing significantly challenges to coparents. Do you still have to pay child support? Can your ex keep your child at home? Learn the latest on how states are enforcing orders right now. - April 10th
New Arkansas Child Support Law Offers Some Dads ReliefFor the first time in 30 years, Arkansas is changing the way child support is figured. The new policy compares both parents' income and parenting time. - April 10th
Fathers’ Rights Friday Funnies – April 10th, 2020 – He Got So FrustratedShare the Knowledge He got so frustrated being treated like he’s not an equal parent, his head exploded. Nothing to worry about, it happens all the time. Join Our Dads Rights Email Community! G We respect your email privacy | Powered by AWeber Email Marketing DadsRights.org is always free,... - April 6th
Fathers’ Rights Friday Funnies – April 3rd, 2020No, they're not degrees, they are 'Dad of the Week' awards from my kids. Every time I pick them up they give me one. - April 2nd
The Single Dad’s Guide to Surviving the Coronavirus ShutdownSingle dads who owe child support could lose their stimulus checks, but there is other help available. Check out these details on extended unemployment programs and what lenders are doing to help. - March 24th
3 Ways that Single Dads Can Connect with Their Kids During the CoronavirusFor some parents, Covid-19 is creating barriers to access. Here are three easy ways single dads can stay connected with their kids. - March 5th
Single Foster Dad Adopts Teen Abandoned by First Adoptive FamilyTony was abandoned at 2, adopted at 4, abandoned again at age 11. Then he met single foster dad Peter Mutabazi. - March 5th
In Texas, Dad Battles Mom’s Former Boyfriend for Custody of 4 Year Old GirlWhen this dad’s ex-wife died, her live-in boyfriend of 10 months filed for custody and won overnight visitation with the dad's 4-year-old daughter. Now, he’s fighting alongside the state of Texas to get the man out of her life. - February 27th
How Dads Can Help All Boys Excel in the ClassroomA recent study shows how gender bias toward reading is discouraging boys’ early academic development. Learn how dads can help. - February 22nd
Oklahoma Group Seeks Dads’ Stories, Offers SupportOklahoma group Furnishing Fathers acts as a bridge between dads and the resources they need to stay involved in their children's lives. - February 13th
Should Single Dads Send Flowers to Their Exes on Valentine’s Day?Some men firmly believe in sending flowers to their exes on Valentine’s Day. Unless you’ve been told to avoid your ex, there are many ways to reach out. - February 7th
Dads Could Pay Support for Unborn Children Thanks to New BillRepublican lawmakers across the country want to use prenatal DNA testing to assign child support before a child is born. Here's how to fight the Unborn Child Support Act. - January 27th
(Don’t) Kick Him in the Privates! Promoting Better Self-Defense Tips for KidsWe believe that peaceful dispute resolution is always the best way, if at all possible. But what about those situations where it has already escalated and your child has no other option but to defend themselves? Here's what not to do: Don't tell your child to kick the other child in their nether regions! - January 22nd
Losing Touch With Your Kids Can Make Them SickA new study out of Norway shows an increase in children’s physical and mental health problems as communication with their dads deteriorates. Learn how to put this study to use in increasing your parenting time with your children. - January 16th
How to Celebrate the Life and Work of Martin Luther King Jr. With Your ChildrenSometimes dads struggle to feel relevant in their children’s lives when they’re not there all the time, but there are plenty of ways you can influence their futures for the good. Even at a distance. Take advantage of the opportunities holidays like Martin Luther King, Jr. Day give parents to make an impact. - January 14th
Is Technology Making You an Anxious Parent? Signs of Postpartum Depression and PPMD in FathersMore is expected of dads today than ever before, and many of them aren’t prepared for the pressure. Throw in an ailing marriage, and you have a recipe for disaster. If you’re feeling overwhelmed by safety and health concerns for your child, double-check your other emotions. You might be struggling with an undiagnosed condition treatment that will help. - January 1st
Top Stories of 2019 and What Dads Want in 2020The biggest news stories of 2019 included the fire of Notre Dame and the first major steps in finding a cure for HIV, but what about the top stories here at DadsRights.org?
- December 26th
Celebrate National Download Day With These Dad-Friendly AppsCo-parenting is tough enough without having to go at it alone. Do your best with the youngest generation with help from next-gen resources. - December 20th
Are Your Gifts Good Enough? The Non-custodial Parents’ Guide to Managing ExpectationsWe’ve run into several dads over the last few days who were worried over whether the gifts they gave their kids were good enough to preserve their relationships for another year. Some of them already know they’re not getting a thank you. - December 10th
What You Don’t Know About International Parental Kidnapping – Are You Prepared?Do you think you need to give your permission for your child to leave the country? You could be wrong. Fathers—and mothers—have found out the hard way how easy it is for someone to disappear with a child. Safeguard your family from the worst case scenario with professional tips on preventing international child abduction. - November 25th
Are Moms More Likely to Promote Toxic Masculinity in Boys? Study on Gender Bias Uncovers Surprising TrendShare the KnowledgeA new study from the University of Guelph has turned stereotypes on their heads, but researchers shared a few cautions. It gauged parental comfort as children of different genders expressed their negative emotions. Exposing the Bias in Exposing Bias Researchers who conducted the study emphasized their findings... - November 19th
Dad’s Fight Garners Support of Governor, State LegislatureOn Oct. 22, after a jury awarded Georgulas sole conservatorship over her child, a judge vacated the decision and gave both parents joint conservatorship, making it possible for the dad to seek a second opinion on his son's gender dysphoria. - November 4th
Paternity Doubts During Pregnancy? Now There’s a Test for That!A non-invasive prenatal paternity test can save you thousands of dollars and months or years of stress without posing any significant risk to mother or child. - October 24th
‘Co Parenting Expert’ Encourages Mom to Call Child Protective Services When Dad Cuts Son’s Hair Without Her PermissionHeading to CPS or to family court over petty issues usually comes back to bite you. Figure out how to handle minor disagreements without putting custody at risk. - October 17th
Single Dad Creates Tech Solution to Tame Birthday Party ChaosDads - single and otherwise - often have answers other parents are seeking. Don’t feel like you have to stay focused on “masculine” issues just because you’re a father. Check out single dad Alfons Mikhaeil's answer to stress-free birthday party planning. - October 2nd
Parenting Classes Aimed at New Dads Improve Wellness for the Whole FamilyToday’s new dad often struggles to find his new place within his growing family. Parenting classes designed to answer men’s questions can help. In addition, these classes also keep dads up-to-date on the safest, most effective ways to care for their children. - September 23rd
Grieving Dad Who Was Jailed for Criticizing the Courts Is Freed by Jury TrialA Michigan father was jailed for calling out a corrupt legal system. Now a jury says he had the right. How does Facebook factor in to your custody case? - September 18th
Wisconsin Woman Jailed for Taking Hit Out on Child’s FatherWomen are just as likely as men to take out a hit on an ex. Fortunately, the contracts are rarely completed. The reason why was a nasty surprise for one Wisconsin mom. - September 9th
Schools in Many States Recognize Importance of Fathers with ‘All Pro Dads’ Program – is Your State Among Them?Schools in many areas, such as in Shelby County, Alabama, started the year off right by promoting the importance of dads in education. A new program called All Pro Dads aims to bring fathers into schools. - August 30th
Would You Trust Your Child to Arrange Your Next Relationship?What happens when single dads are ready to date again? While it’s harder to set the right expectations, a healthy foundation offers everyone benefits. - August 23rd
Dads in Japan Face Absurd Level of Scrutiny When Out Alone With Their KidsCan you imagine living in a country where seeing a father alone with his child was so rare that it seemed an acceptable reason to call the police? - August 13th
If My Ex Has a Restraining Order Against Me, Can She Contact Me? How to Safely Contest a Request for an Order of ProtectionWhile restraining orders are sometimes needed to protect victims of domestic violence, they’re now commonly used to give one party a leg-up in a divorce. Here's what to do if you're falsely accused. - August 1st
Study Accidentally Finds that Courts are Taking Claims of Parental Alienation in the Face of False Allegations of Abuse More SeriouslyA new study shows courts are taking a more serious stance on allegations of parental alienation when it is accompanied by potentially false claims of abuse. Of course, that wasn’t its purpose. - July 22nd
UK Parents Needed for Studies on Parental Alienation, Court Abuse, and Also Need Victims of Domestic, Economic, and Emotional AbuseUK parents are being asked to take part in surveys on parental alientation and other forms of domestic violence. Protect your anonymity while helping to shape policies in the United Kingdom. - July 19th
6 Ways Single Dads Can Help Their Kids Succeed in SchoolWe tackled the question of whether child support should be used for school supplies, but supplies aren’t the end-all-be-all of school success. Here are six other ways dads can help their kids succeed at school. - June 27th
Single Dad Organizes Heavy Metal Festival for Music-Loving Son With Cerebral PalsyWhen 23-year-old Mason McDeid was a toddler, his father Richard arrived home from work to find him crying. This wasn’t an unusual occurrence, says Richard; Mason has cerebral palsy, and, from birth, there had been far fewer moments where Mason wasn’t crying. But this day was different; on a whim, Richard began playing the album ‘Binge and Purge’ by Metallica. - June 27th
New Study Shows Dads Which Activities Are Best for BondingWhat's the best way for dad to bond with the kids? A new study gives fathers advice on which activities make the most impact. - June 20th
What is Daddy Shaming and Why it’s So Very WrongA new survey shows over half of dads are dad-shamed for their parenting choices, and that mom is often the culprit. Read more about what triggers complaints and the shocking impact they have on families. - June 16th
Father’s Day message from DadsRights.org to our membersShare the KnowledgeIt’s Father’s Day — are you ready to celebrate? Right away, we know some of you will want to shout, “NO! I don’t get the chance to celebrate Father’s Day at all!” Just remember, there’s no one way to observe any holiday. Some people stay home and... - June 15th
Father’s Day Weekend Statistics on Child Support and Parenting Time 2019For Father's Day 2019 we are covering both a state by state comparison of average child support awards, and a state by state comparison of parenting time awarded to single fathers. While in most states the amount of child support awarded to the custodial parent is in part driven by how much parenting time each parent has, that doesn't necessarily mean that if you have more parenting time than someone in another state that you will pay less child support, even if it's an adjacent neighboring state. - June 7th
Just in Time for Father’s Day: Surprising Stats that You’ll Love about Single DadsShare the KnowledgeDo a search for “statistics on dads.” The first result? “Fatherless children”The second? “Father absence” A similar search for moms turns up cheery results, like, “Statistics about mothers around the World” and “Surprising Statistics That’ll Make You Appreciate Mom.” We see that and think maybe sites like... - May 30th
Arizona DCS Lied About a Single Father in Order to Terminate his Rights — and He Proved ItShare the KnowledgeA single father whose parental rights were wrongly terminated won an appeal against the Arizona Department of Child Safety based on the agency falsifying evidence and interfering with the reunification process. According to AZCentral.com, the mother of the child had her rights terminated shortly after birth in... - May 25th
Single Dads by Choice – Funded Foster Adoption Creates New Paths to ParenthoodShare the Knowledge“I don’t have to ask anybody anything. I think it’s better for me in terms of that,” said William Presswood in an interview with NBC 6 Miami. Presswood is a high school teacher by day and foster/adoptive father by night, who has cared for more than 100 children... - May 15th
Single Parents’ Guide to Planning a Summer VacationLearn how to plan a summer vacation that works for you, your kids and their other parent. - May 6th
UK’s Mothering Sunday Cards for Dads Mark Important ShiftIn the face of the tireless fight to see fathers as a vital presence in their childrens’ lives, it’s important to not let subtle shifts, as they’re often signs that the movement is finally picking up pace, and making room for change. This year, many in the UK noticed, for the first time ever, something new on the shelves in time for Mothering Sunday; cards for dads. - May 3rd
Cinco de Mayo Celebrations Single Parents Can Enjoy With The KidsShare the KnowledgeHolidays provide a convenient framework for having fun with the kids. Unfortunately, some holidays aren’t as familiar as others and misconceptions can cause problems with your child’s other parent. Cinco de Mayo is one example and will be here before you know it. What is Cinco de... - April 25th
Study Finds the Importance of Nightly Bedtime Stories with DadA common concern amongst single dads is finding ways to be a part of their children’s lives in a meaningful way during non-parenting time. This is especially challenging for military dads, who find themselves deployed overseas for long periods of time; it can be distressing for them to feel like they’re not as active in the lives of their children as they’d like. A study about regular storytime may hold part of the answer, and inspire some creative ways to allay this concern. - April 23rd
Grown Kids of Single Fathers Share Their Favorite Memories of DadIf we learned anything in our recent article about hardships faced by dads, a recurring challenge is unsolicited commentary about how much better off the kids would be with their mothers. - April 23rd
Pitt-Jolie Divorce Brings California’s Curious Bifurcation Laws to LightShare the KnowledgeFew couples have disrupted Hollywood with their divorce antics in recent years like Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie. Rumors of child abuse, infidelity, alcoholism and alienation aside, the contentious battle has brought to light a loophole in California divorce law that could lessen child trauma. The Beginning... - April 22nd
Single Dads Reveal the Challenges of Raising Kids AloneWhen a Reddit user recently posted the question “What are some hardships you have to endure that people don't seem to understand?” to subreddit r/AskMen, over 3,000 users flooded the post with their personal anecdotes, summing up their experiences, ranging from sad to hilarious. - April 9th
Ariana Bozemen Returns — Missing Girl Reunited With Father, Mother Charged with Felony After Year on the RunShare the KnowledgeIn August 2018, police in Enoch, UT, filed a missing person’s report for Ariana Bozemen, age 9. The girl disappeared days after a judge awarded her father sole custody. Last week, authorities found the girl with her mother, Dawn Closson, and other family at a rest stop in... - April 1st
Iowa Considers 50-50 Custody Law Critics Say Would Draw Cases Out, Increase CostsShare the Knowledge Photo by rawpixel.com from Pexels Like many states, Iowa is contemplating a new bill which would begin custody negotiations with parents sharing rights and responsibilities equally. The fathers’ rights group IowaFathers.org has been fighting for such a law for nearly 20 years, and the Iowa Senate passed a... - March 20th
In Ireland, Unmarried Fathers Waiting for Rights While Oireachtas MeetsShare the KnowledgeNorthern Ireland changed their child and custody laws in 2002 to reflect the importance a father – married or not – plays in his children’s lives. Now other Irish dads say they’ve waited long enough. While the 2015 Children and Family Relationships Act postured at giving single dads... - March 9th
Single Parents’ Best Tips for Last-Minute Spring Break Activities and EscapesShare the KnowledgeSpring Break in the United States runs from the end of February to the beginning of April. For most students, it lands during mid-to-late March. While you might not have your child during the whole break, you can make the most of their time off. Here are three... - March 4th
Illinois ‘Equal Parenting Time’ Bill Sees Major Opposition Second Year in a RowThere is clear scientific evidence that a need for legal guidance exists if children are to have equal time with their mothers and fathers. Learn how you can help children get the parenting time they deserve in Illinois. - February 15th
Ohio Father Killed During Custody ExchangeThe Ohio father lured to his death in a McDonald’s parking lot last month had just won custody of his three children. How could the courts have helped keep this family safe? - February 6th
Dad Gains Primary Custody After Judge Declares Mother’s Bitterness Is AbuseA UK dad won sole physical custody of the kids when their mother's bitterness became emotionally abusive. Read on for tips for how to process the pain of divorce without impacting the kids. - January 21st
Why More American Dads Are Winning Primary CustodyChanges in and out of the courtroom are leading to more fathers getting primary custody of their kids. - January 19th
Judge Dismissed Over Parenting Time Tampering Loses PensionNew Jersey Superior Court judge dismissed after lying to police in a friend's custody matter has lost her state pension. - January 3rd
Russian Dad Awarded €15,000 for Article 8 Violation of European Convention on Human RightsWhile attitudes toward parenting rights differ greatly from country to country (and sometimes, from state to state) the European Convention creates an obligation for all of its members to keep family ties strong. There’s potential for this court decision to make big waves in policies regarding court order enforcement and in attitudes toward parenting agreements in general.
- December 20th
New Zealand Refuses to Return Child Kidnapped From MalaysiaThe Hague Convention on the Civil Aspects of Child Abduction established rules for returning children to their home countries when abducted by a parent, but when one of the countries involved in a custody dispute hasn’t signed the agreement, those protections sometimes go out the window. - December 10th
Second Opinion Denied to Dad Who Doesn’t Believe His 6-Year-Old is TransgenderA six-year-old child who identifies as a girl when he’s with his mother and as a boy when he’s with his father is at the center of an intense Texas custody battle, in which the mother has exclusive rights to make decisions regarding mental health. - November 29th
How Single Parents can Turn the Stress of the Holiday Season Into Fond Memories Your Children Will CherishThe holiday season is rife with harsh memories and emotions, especially for disunited families, that can leave some single parents - and their children - feeling overwhelmed. Care for yourself during the holidays by managing stressors in healthy ways. - November 24th
Biological Father Awarded Parenting Rights in California Case Recognizing Three ParentsOn Tuesday, Nov. 13, California’s Third District Court of Appeal found in favor of a biological father (known as C.A.) who now shares parenting rights with a married woman and her husband. - November 8th
Supreme Court of India Says Fathers Can Remarry and Retain CustodyThe Supreme Court of India says parents can remarry without risking custody. - November 2nd
Custody Battle Possible Motive for Double HomicideInvestigators say a heated custody battle could play a role in the Sodus murders of Joshua Niles and Amber Washburn. - October 23rd
Pro-Dad Attitudes Key to Improving Child Support Recovery RatesSimply changing the wording at various stages of the child support process demonstrated a 54 percent improvement in effectiveness. When dads are invited, encouraged and appreciated it is more beneficial to families, to children and to state budgets than the current trend toward criminalization. - October 14th
Proposed Parenting Time Rule Changes in Japan Could Spell Good News for Single FathersCustody and parenting time is handled differently in Japan than it is in the West, though new rules could change things. Efforts are aimed at making child exchanges easier and more enforceable. - October 10th
How Both Dr. Blasey Ford and Judge Kavanaugh Could be Telling the TruthIt may go down in history as the most notorious 'he said - she said' of all time, not to mention the most divisive. The nation has been gripped by the compelling story of a vulnerable teenaged girl, at a drunken gathering, being led into a bedroom, thrown down on the bed, and having her mouth covered when she tried to scream. The nation was equally gripped, and either convinced or disgusted by, the accused's complete and absolute denial that he was the culprit. - October 5th
Kansas says Father Whose Child Adopted Away without his Knowledge or Consent has Rights to His ChildThe Kansas Supreme Court granted a biological father parental rights to a child given up for adoption without proper notice. - September 28th
Florida School Board Recognizes Parental Alienation Syndrome (PAS)Parental alienation syndrome (PAS) hurts children and prevents them from having time they deserve with both their mother and father. Now the Brevard County School Board has committed to drawing attention to the problem. - September 20th
New Fathers’ Rights Group Hopes to Change Idaho LawIdaho was ranked among the lowest states when considering parenting time granted to divorced fathers. The problem is compounded by the state’s unusually high divorce rate. - September 12th
How to Find Qualified Legal Help for Custody, Child Support, and Other Family Law IssuesHere's how to find good, qualified legal help for custody, child support, and other family law issues. Too often, friends and family will give you advice about your legal situation which is capable of hurting you in court. They aren’t meaning to sabotage your efforts. They just don’t know how judges and lawyers react when fathers take certain actions. - September 6th
Ability to Show Police a Parenting Time Order as Important Now as it Was in 2018Keep a copy of your parenting time order with you or in your car at all times. It not only can help you protect your rights, but it can keep you out of jail. For example, retired NBA player Matt Barnes could have gone to jail, but instead, he drove away with his 9-year-old twins, and their mother, reality TV-star Gloria Govan, was arrested on charges of felony child endangerment. - August 29th
Australia ‘Sperm Donor’ Seeks Parental RightsSperm donorship became more popular in the ‘80s as single women became more confident in their choices to raise a child without the help of a male partner. The law sided with women’s rights, but now courts are focused on their children’s rights. - August 21st
Should Child Support Cover School Supplies?Some divorced parents wind up fighting over the cost of school supplies. How you handle this legally has more to do with your divorce decree than anything. - August 16th
Biological Dads Gain More Rights in Florida CourtsThe decision in a new Florida case has made it easier for biological dads to have a chance at custody, but it won’t be as simple as showing up to court. - August 1st
The 7 Books Divorcing, Divorced, and Single Fathers NeedBooks for divorced dads will help you navigate some of the toughest challenges you can face during and after the process. Fupping recently published their list of the best seven books for divorced men, and here is our rundown of them. - July 26th
Knesset Member Decries Hypocrisy against Fathers in Israel’s Family Law SystemIn Israel, mothers automatically receive custody of children under age six thanks to the Tender Years Clause. Women’s groups vehemently opposed attempts to lower the age last year. It’s a fight that frustrated men and women who are fighting for the best interests of Israeli children. - July 20th
Warren Farrell and John Gray Team Up to Shine Spotlight on the Crisis for Boys and Men in the United StatesSociety has been fighting for decades to erase the constraints against women. We’ve taken major strides to convince girls they could be smart and nurturing, inspiring and inspired, that they had the power to define who and what they would become based on their likes and preferences and nobody else’s. But we haven’t afforded the same privilege to boys. - July 16th
Parental Rights in Modern-Day DivorceIssues of custody and parental rights are almost invariably the most important, emotional, and high-stakes components of divorce proceedings. Money can be lost or spent, then regained, and real estate and vehicles can be replaced, but there is no substitute for access to one’s children. - July 12th
Chicago Fathers’ Rights Lawyers Named “Super Lawyers” by Illinois Super LawyersSuper Lawyers recognized Alan Hoffenberg and Gloria Block, cofounders of Hoffenberg & Block LLC for decades of outstanding work. The directory listed an addition three attorneys from the firm as “Rising Stars.” Combined, the firm represents more than 100 years of experience in family law. - July 11th
State Laws Regarding Custody for Unmarried Fathers Vary from State to StateFor unmarried fathers to stay protected, it's important to realize the advice you get from friends might not be relevant in your state or to your situation. Search out legal advice from official sources. - July 9th
New Kentucky Law Creates Presumption of Joint CustodyA new law hopes to help Kentucky kids stay connected with both of their parents after divorce by requiring judges to assign joint custody whenever possible. - July 5th
Mr. Dad Offers Advice, Hope to Single Fathers Along with OthersMr. Dad, aka Armin Brott, is a father of three who has published eight books on fatherhood in the past 15 years and has a column featured in publications around the globe. His blog is one of the most popular parenting resources on the Internet. But is he the right source for advice for single fathers? - July 4th
How to Stay Connected with Your Children When You’re Apart for the HolidaysWhether you’re celebrating the 4th of July or New Years, festivities are a little less festive without the family around. Divorce does a number on traditions. Living life to the fullest after divorce means creating new ones. Get creative, and you will still feel like you’re celebrating together on the holiday, even if the date falls during mom’s parenting time. - June 19th
Single Dads at Increased Risk of Suicide on Father’s DayFor thousands of fathers in America, Father’s Day was one of the few days this year they were able to see their children. For others, it was another day spent in a seemingly endless custody battle against a system that was stacked against them from the start. For far too many, that battle proved too much and their Father’s Day ended tragically in suicide. What should be a happy day to celebrate fatherhood and the important male figures in our lives, turns out to be one of the five holidays with the most suicide attempts in the United States. - June 13th
Equal Custody Rights for Fathers Blocked by Special InterestsShare the KnowledgeThe National Parents Organization has polled the American public in several states and found that the vast majority, over 70%, support joint physical custody after divorce whenever possible. Increasingly, old fashioned ideas have fallen out of favor — that children belong with their nurturing, caregiver mothers, while the... - June 7th
State by State Breakdown of Average Parenting Time for Dads – Which States Give the Most and Least Time to FathersA study commissioned by the CustodyXChange, just in time for Father's Day, has determined how much parenting time fathers are given, on average, in each state in the United States. Somewhat surprisingly, the study found that there are twenty states that generally give equal time to both parents, in other words 50/50 custody. On the other hand, there are 24 states that give fathers less than 30% parenting time, and 7 states that give fathers and their children less than 24% of the time together. - April 25th
North Carolina Could Get a Fathers’ Rights Advocate as Their Next State SenatorResidents in North Carolina's 42nd District could have a shared parenting and fathers' rights advocate as their newest state senator, if they elect Dustin Long as their representative. - March 21st
West Virginia Fathers get Boost with iFather EventsFathers' relationships with their children are getting a boost in West Virginia from West Virginia University's iFather program. iFather is a joint effort between the WVU extension program, and their College of Physical Activity and Sport Sciences ('CPASS'). - February 28th
NOW’s Hidden Agenda and War on Fathers’ RightsThe National Organization for Women (NOW) claims that it is about full equality between men and women. Those who espouse true equality are known as equality feminists. NOW is not an equality feminism organization - rather it is a gender feminism organization. Gender feminism espouses that women need special treatment and protections by virtue of their gender. And, for NOW, this includes special protections against men having equal parenting rights. - February 26th
Rick Santorum says Time to Discuss the Connection Between School Shooters and Father AbsenceFormer GOP senator Rick Santorum has said that it's time to discuss a striking commonality among most school shooters: they come from father-absent households. Many have twisted this to say that he is blaming single mothers, and that's poppycock. Regardless of on which side of the political spectrum you lay, the reality is that he's right. - February 23rd
How the New Tax Laws from 2017 – 2018 Affect Single Fathers and What You Should Do About ItAs we mentioned a couple of weeks ago, the new tax law passed in 2017, and effective in 2018, has serious impacts for single fathers. The most glaring of these impacts - which also seems to be the least covered - is that it it completely does away with the deduction for spousal support (also known as 'alimony' or 'maintenance'). Here's what you should do to deal with this. - February 19th
Mother Sentenced to Jail for Having Child Baptized without Father’s Knowledge or AgreementIn a novel twist, a mother in North Carolina was jailed after having the divorced couple's daughter baptized without the father's permission. What makes this situation so unique is not only that the mother was sentenced and jailed, but also that while the parents actually agreed in principle that they wanted their daughter to be baptized, and to be raised Catholic, the court had granted full legal custody of the child to the father. - February 12th
The New Tax Law Does Away with Alimony, Spousal Support DeductionWith very little fanfare, the new tax law that was passed at the very end of December, 2017, and which is effective in 2018, did away with the requirement that spousal support (previously known as alimony) receivers declare spousal support as income and, on the other side of the balance sheet, did away with the deduction for spousal support payers. - February 8th
Mississippi Gets New Fathers’ Rights Law FirmThe state of Mississippi just received a new fathers' rights gift: a branch of Cordell & Cordell - the law firm that has made a name for itself by focusing on family law for men. - January 24th
5 Custody Mistakes that Fathers Should AvoidDadsRights.org founder Anne P. Mitchell has been widely quoted, along with other attorneys, in an article on Fatherly.com about the "5 Custody-Battle Mistakes Fathers Need to Avoid". It's a great article (and not just because our own founder is in it)! - January 16th
How a Father Can Lose Parental Rights without Ever KnowingDid you know that a father's parental rights can be terminated without him ever knowing (or for that matter without him even knowing that he's a father)? Using a process called 'notice by publication' or 'service by publication' a mother, or a government agency, can publish a notice of intent to terminate parental rights - or to take an action which will have the effect of or lead up to terminating a father's parental rights - in a local newspaper. After several weeks of running that notice, if the father fails to respond, he's history.
- October 24th
Mother’s False Accusations Lead to Misuse of Amber AlertA mother's false accusations led to the misuse of an Amber Alert, as well as the father being erroneously targeted as having "taken his child when he had no parental rights" (he actually does have parental rights), being identified as a "suspect", and him having been taken into custody before everything was cleared up. - October 17th
Woman Charged with Felony Deprivation of Parental Rights for Not Delivering Child for Father’s Parenting TimeA Minnesota woman has been charged with multiple felonies stemming from her failure to make the child available to the father during the father's parenting time. In fact, in addition to failing to produce the child at the appointed time, she stated that she had put the child in foster care (she had not actually done so). - October 13th
Law Presuming Equal Parenting in Missouri to be Introduced in Missouri LegislatureMissouri parents may find themselves one step closer to having the custody and parenting time playing field leveled, with the upcoming introduction of a bill which provides that when custody and parenting time are at issue, there is a presumption of shared custody. - October 2nd
Iowa Mother Arrested after Leaving 4 Children Alone in Order to Take Pleasure Trip to GermanyPolice have arrested and jailed Erin Macke, of Johnston, Iowa, and charged the mother of four with endangering her children, ages 12, 12, 7, and 6. They have also charged the 30-year-old Macke with transferring a firearm to a person under the age of 21, because she left a firearm in the home which was accessible to the children. All of this so that she could take a 12-day pleasure trip to Germany. While originally she had child care in place, that fell through and she decided to take the trip anyway, leaving the two 12-year-olds in charge. - October 2nd
Police Stop 13-Year Old Boy with Alienated Father from Killing Self After Being Abandoned by His MotherPolice in Dubai have kept a 13-year-old boy who was abandoned by his mother, after she had successfully alienated him from his father for many years, from committing suicide. The boy, left alone when his mother took off to the Netherlands, had called the police, saying that he was going to kill himself. After the police convinced the boy to let them into the apartment, where he was all alone, it became clear that he had in fact tried to cut his own wrists. - September 25th
Mother Tries to Kill Newborn then Leaves Newborn in Trash, Gets Slap on the WristBrandon Addison is a full-time father, although he gained custody in the most shocking of ways. Ashley Hautzenrader, the mother of Brandon's infant son Matthew left Matthew for dead in a restroom garbage can right after he was born. She left him in the restroom garbage after her efforts to flush the newborn down a toilet didn't work. - September 20th
International Parental Kidnapping Relief No Better Now Than It Was Years AgoWhile nearly all civilized countries have signed on to the Hague Convention, which includes cooperation between countries in the case of international parental kidnapping, the reality is that if one parent absconds with the children to another country - and especially if it is the country of the kidnapping parent's birth - the left-behind parent will have a very hard time getting their child back, if they are able to get their child back at all. - August 30th
New Fathers’ Rights Organization Opens in Toledo, OhioToledo, Ohio is the newest community to have a fathers' rights organization open its doors to single and disenfranchised fathers. Called, straightforwardly enough, "Fathers Rights Organization" (or 'FRO'), the organization was founded to "help, support and encourage you for what is best for your situation," adding, wisely, that "Not every situation is the same for everyone." - August 29th
New Dads Resource Center Provides Support for Single Fathers in PennsylvaniaThere is new a resource for single fathers in Centre County, Pennsylvania. The Dads Resource Center (or, as they refer to themselves, the 'DRC') is open for business, and that business includes "providing education, resources and advocacy for men in separated families who are determined to uphold their sacred responsibility as fathers." - August 28th
New Book Offers a First Person Perspective on Parental AlienationIn an excellent editorial in the Baltimore Post Examiner, David Shubert writes that "Parental alienation leaves a hurricane of pain." While it's a bit ironic that his editorial was published just one day before Hurricane Harvey it, perhaps it's also prophetic - as we watch the scenes of countless families flooded out of their homes, as devastating is the flood of emotions when one is pushed out of their family, and away from their children, by parental alienation. - August 25th
Advocate Tries to Change ‘Fathers Day’ to “Special Persons’ Day”A woman calling herself an advocate for social justice for children (and also calling herself Dr. Red Ruby Scarlet, which she insists is her real name) has called for the abolition of Fathers' Day, instead renaming it to "Special Person's Day". - August 22nd
Letting the Kids Stay in the Home While the Divorcing Parents Move In and Out. Is it Realistic?A recent Washington post article, titled "Letting the kids stay in the home while the divorcing parents move in and out. Is it realistic?," features DadsRights.org founder Anne P. Mitchell talking not only about why children need to have both parents in their lives after divorce, but also for the first time sharing her own personal experience with nesting. Nesting is when the children stay permanently in the family home, and the parents swap in and out. - August 21st
Child Seeking Money from Parents Can Be a Legal Party to Parents’ Divorce, says CourtA Pennsylvania appellate court has ruled that an adult child seeking money from their parents can become a party in their parents' divorce. In the case of Weber v. Weber, Judges Olson, Stabile, and Strassburger held that Michael Weber, the adult child of Beth Anne Weber and Mark Weber, had legal standing to join his parents' divorce action as a plaintiff in order to sue his father to enforce a provision saying that his parents would pay for college. - August 18th
Proposed Michigan Shared Custody Law Creates Presumed 50/50 Physical CustodyA new law is being proposed in Michigan that would change the Michigan Child Custody Act to a presumption of 50/50 physical custody absent evidence which demonstrates that a different custody arrangement should be used. The bill, House Bill 4691, was introduced by Republican State Representative Jim Runestad. - August 17th
Why You Probably Shouldn’t Fight for Sole CustodyMs. Mitchell was featured in an article over at CustodyxChange.com about why you probably shouldn't fight for sole custody. Ms. Mitchell is quoted under the heading "Save Your Money".
- July 7th
Mother’s Attempt at Kidnapping Children Goes Horribly Wrong – or RightIn one of the most high profile international child abduction cases in a while, an Australian mother, Sally Faulkner, who seems to have convinced an entire news program that the father of her children, Ali al-Amin, had taken and kept the children illegally, or, at least, improperly, has been charged with attempted kidnapping, along with the crew of the Australian 60 Minutes news show. - June 19th
Happy Father’s Day from DadsRights.orgHappy Father's Day! Please remember that no matter whether you are able to spend this Father's Day with your children or not, you are still, and always will be, their father. Happy Father's Day from DadsRights.org - May 25th
Single Fathers: If You Don’t Get Your Kids for Fathers’ Day this May be WhyAs Fathers' Day approaches, many single dads find themselves in the untenable situation of being fathers, yet not being able to be with their children on that most fatherly of all holidays, Fathers' Day. This may be why. - May 6th
Should Men be Able to Decline Paternity During Same Period that Women Can Get an Abortion?In what is unfortunately being called a 'male abortion', conversations are happening about whether men should have the right to decline paternity for an unplanned pregnancy during the same period of time in which the woman could legally have an abortion. - May 3rd
Woman Tries to Pin Boyfriend’s Sex Abuse of Toddler Daughters on Their Father – Has Rights TerminatedA Michigan woman who last year tried to blame her ex, the father of her twin toddler daughters, for sexual abuse of their daughters, when her new boyfriend was actually the perpetrator, has had her parental rights terminated, in addition to serving 30 days in jail, and having two years of probation. The girls' father now has full custody. - May 2nd
Journalist Blames Right to Contact with Both Parents for Damage Done to Women in Family CourtIn the below news report, a journalist blames the family court rule that a child has the right to regular contact with both children for the "damage done" to women, mainly that their accusations of abuse don't work to get the "abuser" out of the child's life. While there are women who are genuinely in fear, it's also true that lots of women make accusations of domestic violence (DV) during divorce in hopes that it will persuade the court to give them sole custody, and get that "loser, abuser man" out of their lives. - May 1st
Children Taken by Mothers and Adopted by Step-Fathers Helped by New Access to Birth and Adoption RecordsThe move in many states, such as in Colorado in the story linked below, to provide for more open access to birth records and adoption records, has had an effect that is all too rarely swept under the rug: allowing grown children whose mothers have removed them from their fathers lives, and had another man adopt and raise them as their own, to finally be able to learn who their real fathers are, and to reach out and contact them. - February 22nd
Passports and the Truth about How the Federal Real ID Requirements for Travel Will Impact Child Support PayersYou may have heard that starting this year you will need a passport to travel by air, even within the United States. While this is not accurate, what is true is that starting in 2018 (not 2016) you will need a compliant driver's license or other ID card in order to travel by air, and one such acceptable form of identification is a passport. However, it is not true that if you don't have a passport and are from Louisiana, Minnesota, New Hampshire or New York (these are the states mentioned most often in the misinformation), you will be unable to board a domestic flight. Here are the facts. - February 9th
What ObamaCare Requires of Divorced ParentsNow that ObamaCare has been in full swing for over a year, you may wonder how it affects divorced parents. - January 22nd
Divorce and Separation – A Child’s PerspectiveIt is always the children that suffer the most when a marriage breaks down and separation or divorce is imminent. They become confused and insecure and their life seems as if it is in turmoil. Here we explain some of the issues from a child’s perspective. - January 22nd
Ex Wants to Move Child to Another StateShare the KnowledgeDear Esq., I am in Albuquerque, NM, and facing a relocation mediation situation sometime in October. From what I get from my lawyer, there is a “heavy burden of proof” on my ex and her husband of three weeks to show “compelling reason” for them to relocate... - January 22nd
Can Primary Parenting Father Retain Custody?Share the KnowledgeDear Esq., I’m hoping you can send me in the right direction. I’m a single parent who has had primary custody of my five year old son for the past four and a half years. My ex-wife has now decided it is time to be a mother... - January 22nd
How Do We Track Down a Missing Child or Grandchild?Share the KnowledgeDear Esq., How do we find an address for our missing grandson? Before custody papers were filed my son’s ex-girlfriend fled with his son. The courts, lawyers, and everyone we have talked to cannot help until he gets an address to serve her papers for visitation. How... - January 22nd
Change of Custody with Unstable Ex ?Share the KnowledgeDear Esq., I have been divorced since 2003 and previous to that separated since 2002. I went to court to get joint physical and legal custody since I thought it would be best for the children and the judge granted me this. I moved on with my... - January 22nd
Change of Custody After Child Has Already Been Moved Away?Share the KnowledgeDear Esq., I went through a divorce about 3 years ago. Though the divorce was fairly painless, parenting issues have become tougher and tougher. I had moved to a different state for my job, and then returned home to where my son lived. His mother and I... - January 22nd
In Our Hearts and In Our Minds: Staying Close To Your Non-Custodial Child Regardless of Geographical DistanceShare the KnowledgeBy FamilyWare Nov 28, 2004, 01:54 Summary: How do we, as non-custodial parents, try to maintain a normal relationship with our child, even though in some cases, our child lives 3,000 miles away? How do we maintain a closeness to our children, so close to their hearts,... - January 22nd
How Do We Track Down a Missing Child or Grandchild?Share the KnowledgeDear Esq., How do we find an address for our missing grandson? Before custody papers were filed my son’s ex-girlfriend fled with his son. The courts, lawyers, and everyone we have talked to cannot help until he gets an address to serve her papers for visitation. How... - January 22nd
Change of Custody After Child Has Already Been Moved Away?Share the KnowledgeDear Esq., I went through a divorce about 3 years ago. Though the divorce was fairly painless, parenting issues have become tougher and tougher. I had moved to a different state for my job, and then returned home to where my son lived. His mother and I... - January 22nd
Ex Wants to Move Child to Another StateShare the KnowledgeSep 3, 2004, 19:36 Summary: I am in Albuquerque, NM, and facing a relocation mediation situation sometime in October. From what I get from my lawyer, there is a “heavy burden of proof” on my ex and her husband of three weeks to show “compelling reason” for... - January 22nd
Change of Custody After Child Has Already Been Moved Away?Share the KnowledgeDear Esq., I went through a divorce about 3 years ago. Though the divorce was fairly painless, parenting issues have become tougher and tougher. I had moved to a different state for my job, and then returned home to where my son lived. His mother and I... - January 22nd
Ex Wants to Move Child to Another StateShare the KnowledgeDear Esq., I am in Albuquerque, NM, and facing a relocation mediation situation sometime in October. From what I get from my lawyer, there is a “heavy burden of proof” on my ex and her husband of three weeks to show “compelling reason” for them to relocate... - January 22nd
What Is Reasonable Visitation?Share the KnowledgeDear Esq., What is considered reasonable visitation? I would love to get my children as much as I can. Can you offer any advice? Thanks! Ken — Dear Ken, Perhaps no divorce or custody decree language has caused more trouble for fathers, mothers, and children, but most... - January 22nd
When Parents are Both Minors and Their Families ObjectShare the KnowledgeDear Esq. I have a brief question. A friend of a friend has a younger sister, 16 years old, who became pregnant by a young man of the same age. In a nutshell, the girl’s family mistreats her now because she is Mexican and her boyfriend is... - January 22nd
Testimony Regarding False Allegations Before the Select Committee on Children, Youth and FamiliesShare the KnowledgeBy Douglas J. Besharov Nov 28, 2004, 02:22 Summary: Douglas J. Besharov, J.D. , LL.M. , is a Resident Scholar at the American Enterprise Institute, Washington, D.C. He was the first director of the U.S. National Center on Child Abuse and Neglect, 1975-1979. His most recent book... - January 22nd
Backlash and the Fact of Battered HusbandsShare the KnowledgeBy James Sniechowski, Ph.D. and Judith Sherven, Ph.D. Nov 28, 2004, 02:13 Summary: One way to trivialize and dismiss a point of view is to claim it is part of a backlash. That is the contemptuous and derogatory characterization often applied when the topic of men’s issues... - January 22nd
Buried Memories – Shattered LivesShare the KnowledgeBy Elizabeth F. Loftus and Laura A. Rosenwald Nov 28, 2004, 02:05 Summary: While no one can doubt the horror of child sex abuse, the powers of suggestion may be helping some adults recall events that never happened. Where those victims once found healing, others now claim... - January 22nd
Faulty Assessment of Child Sexual Abuse: Legal and Emotional SequelaeShare the KnowledgeBy Diane K. Schetky, M.D. and Harold Boverman, M.D. Nov 28, 2004, 01:04 Summary: Increased awareness of child sexual abuse has caused the pendulum to swing the other way to the point where unsubstantiated reported cases may now outnumber documented ones. If one includes all child abuse... - January 22nd
Male Victims of Sexual AbuseShare the KnowledgeBy Pitzer Nov 28, 2004, 00:29 Summary: Throughout the past decade, there has been an increase in reports of child sexual abuse, largely because of improved education and prevention efforts. But the focus historically has been on female victims, with minimal attention to boys and adult male... - January 22nd
A Rant About Operation AmberThis is a rant which has been a long time in coming. That’s because I see it nearly every day. You see, I subscribe to the Operation Amber mailing list. That’s pretty amazing to think about, isn’t it? That there are Amber Alerts every single day. And that’s the issue. And that’s what this rant is about. Perhaps even the average citizen could notice it, but being a former father’s rights attorney, I particularly recognize it. - January 22nd
How Do We Track Down a Missing Child or Grandchild?Share the KnowledgeDear Esq., How do we find an address for our missing grandson? Before custody papers were filed my son’s ex-girlfriend fled with his son. The courts, lawyers, and everyone we have talked to cannot help until he gets an address to serve her papers for visitation. How... - January 22nd
Frustration or Denial of VisitationShare the KnowledgeDear Esq., What is considered reasonable visitation? I would love to get my children as much as I can. Can you offer any advice? Thanks! Ken — Dear Ken, Perhaps no divorce or custody decree language has caused more trouble for fathers, mothers, and children, but most... - January 22nd
Can a Non-Custodial Parent Be Forced to Pay College Tuition?Share the KnowledgeDear Esq., My ex-wife Mary and I separated before Matthew was born, not knowing he was coming. Matt is now 18. I’ve paid child support voluntarily for 18 years, every month. Mary, a Westchester County, NY elementary school teacher, makes almost twice as much money as I... - January 22nd
Child Support Arrears for Child He Didn’t Even Know ExistedShare the KnowledgeDear Esq. My husband has a 9 year old daughter from a woman he barely knew. She is a woman who has 4 kids by 3 fathers and was never married to any of them. My husband found out he had a child from the District Attorney,... - January 22nd
How “Economists” Calculate Child SupportShare the KnowledgeBy Dr. David Garrod Nov 28, 2004, 02:31 Summary: What we want to know is the true cost of raising children as a function of the income of the parents. However no such precise data exist. We have to infer the cost of raising children from the... - January 22nd
A Brief Explanation of “Community Property”Share the KnowledgeThere are at least two types of state schemes for the division of marital property at the time of divorce or death. One of these types is called “equitable distribution”, by which the Court is supposed to look at the whole picture of the family’s assets, debts, and... - January 22nd
Is His 401k Community Property?Share the KnowledgeDear Esq., My husband and I have been married for 21 years. We live in California, and I am considering a divorce. Is his 401K considered community property? What about our seperate IRA accounts? California is indeed a community property state. Generally speaking, anything acquired during the... - January 22nd
Business Owners and DivorceShare the KnowledgeSep 3, 2004, 20:11 Summary: Business owners who find themselves going through a divorce or separation are often suprised to find that, on top of all the other things with which they have to deal, their very business may be at stake – even at risk –... - January 22nd
Attachment Parenting and DivorceShare the KnowledgeAttachment parenting is one of the most wonderful gifts which you can give to your children. Attachment parenting has as one of its hallmarks the fact that it is demonstrated, again and again, to raise very secure, well-grounded children. This makes attachment parenting even more important, if... - January 22nd
What Are Arbitration and MediationShare the KnowledgeDear Esq., What are arbitration and mediation? Do they mean the same thing? Are they different? When should you use mediation or arbitration instead of using a lawyer or going to court? Thank you. Wondering — Dear Wondering, Arbitration and mediation are two forms of what is... - January 22nd
Understanding Structured Settlements and their AdvantagesShare the KnowledgeBy Josh Murray Jul 13, 2005, 20:56 Summary: Put in simple terms, a structured settlement is merely an agreement that’s reached between a plaintiff and defendant that outlines the flow of payment that the plaintiff receives, due to injury. Note: Guest Author articles made available as a... - January 22nd
BankruptcyShare the KnowledgeJul 5, 2004 Bankruptcy. The very word “bankruptcy” used to strike fear and loathing into many a heart. Years ago, filing for personal bankruptcy was considered one of the most shameful things which a person could do. Now, however, while bankruptcy still should be considered a last... - January 22nd
Business Owners and DivorceShare the KnowledgeBusiness owners who find themselves going through a divorce or separation are often suprised to find that, on top of all the other things with which they have to deal, their very business may be at stake – even at risk – and may become the subject of... - January 22nd
A Summary of the Fair Credit Reporting ActShare the KnowledgeBy Gary Gresham / Jul 13, 2005 Summary: With the free credit report act having gone into effect, there is just no excuse for not getting a handle on your own credit situation. This article explains your rights under both the Fair Credit Reporting Act, and the... - January 22nd
Repair Your Credit Like A Financial ExpertShare the KnowledgeBy John Simpson / Jul 13, 2005, 22:11 Summary: Free credit reports are the key to starting the process of credit repair. This article tells you how to do your own credit repair in three easy steps. Note: Guest Author articles made available as a courtesy to... - January 22nd
Eight Ways to Sink Yourself FinanciallyShare the KnowledgeBy Richmond Acheampong / Jul 13, 2005, 22:05 Summary: Credit cards, financial plans, and investments all have both good and bad sides. If you don’t put them to good use, or abuse them, or, in some cases, don’t have them at all, it can lead to financial... - January 22nd
Help to Get Out of DebtShare the KnowledgeBy Janet Williams / Jul 13, 2005, 21:29 Summary: Debt consolidation and debt management are two ways to help deal with credit card debt, and other crushing debt. Debt consolitation and debt management services are available to help provide debt help, and to help you obtain debt... - January 22nd
Debt Management and Debt Help for Single FathersShare the KnowledgeSummary: Debt management, debt help, and expense management are doubly daunting for the divorced or single father who often has to support more than one household. This article contains information which may provide some surprising and welcome relief. Credit and debt issues are some of the most... - January 22nd
The Maternal Bond – Part I – The DilemmaShare the KnowledgeBy Anne P. Mitchell, Esq. Dec 3, 2004, 11:30 Summary: The Maternal Bond was originally published in the American Journal of Family Law, and is serialized here at DadsRights.org by special arrangement with the author. THE MATERNAL BOND 1992 (c) Anne P. Mitchell, Stanford Law School Published... - January 22nd
The Maternal Bond – Part 2 – The WomenShare the KnowledgeBy Anne P. Mitchell, Esq. Dec 3, 2004, 11:29 Summary: The Maternal Bond was originally published in the American Journal of Family Law, and is serialized here at DadsRights.org by special arrangement with the author. THE MATERNAL BOND 1992 (c) Anne P. Mitchell, Stanford Law School Published... - January 22nd
The Maternal Bond – Part 3 – The MenShare the KnowledgeBy Anne P. Mitchell, Esq. Dec 3, 2004, 11:28 Summary: The Maternal Bond was originally published in the American Journal of Family Law, and is serialized here at DadsRights.org by special arrangement with the author. THE MATERNAL BOND 1992 (c) Anne P. Mitchell, Stanford Law School Published... - January 22nd
The Maternal Bond – Part 4 – The Family Law SystemShare the KnowledgeBy Anne P. Mitchell, Esq. Dec 3, 2004, 11:27 Summary: The Maternal Bond was originally published in the American Journal of Family Law, and is serialized here at DadsRights.org by special arrangement with the author. THE MATERNAL BOND 1992 (c) Anne P. Mitchell, Stanford Law School Published... - January 22nd
The Maternal Bond – Part 5 – SocietyShare the KnowledgeBy Anne P. Mitchell, Esq. Dec 3, 2004, 11:19 Summary: The Maternal Bond was originally published in the American Journal of Family Law, and is serialized here at DadsRights.org by special arrangement with the author. THE MATERNAL BOND 1992 (c) Anne P. Mitchell, Stanford Law School Published... - January 22nd
The Maternal Bond – Part 6 – ConclusionShare the KnowledgeBy Anne P. Mitchell, Esq. Dec 3, 2004, 11:18 Summary: The Maternal Bond was originally published in the American Journal of Family Law, and is serialized here at DadsRights.org by special arrangement with the author. THE MATERNAL BOND 1992 (c) Anne P. Mitchell, Stanford Law School Published... - January 22nd
Surviving as a Single Parent: Seven Simple Suggestions to Make Your Life EasierShare the KnowledgeBy Danielle Hollister Nov 8, 2004, 23:51 Summary: Danielle Hollister is the Quotations Editor at BellaOnline and Publisher of BellaOnline Quotations Zine. [Note: The Guest Authors’ area is made available as a courtesy to our readers. The advice and opinions expressed therein are not necessarily those of... - January 22nd
Some Good News About Blended FamiliesShare the KnowledgeBy Lisa Cohn Nov 8, 2004, 23:46 Summary: Lisa Cohn, an award-winning writer, is co-author of One Family, Two Family, New Family: Stories And Advice For Stepfamilies. [Note: The Guest Authors’ area is made available as a courtesy to our readers. The advice and opinions expressed therein... - January 22nd
Seven Simple Tips About Child Custody IssuesShare the KnowledgeBy Danielle Hollister Nov 8, 2004, 22:50 Summary: Danielle Hollister (2004) is the Publisher of BellaOnline Quotations Zine – A free newsletter for quote lovers featuring more than 10,000 quotations in dozens of categories like – love, friendship, children, inspiration, success, wisdom, family, life, and many more.... - January 22nd
Top Seven Tips to Become a Good StepmotherShare the KnowledgeBy Denielle Hollister Nov 8, 2004, 22:15 Summary: Danielle Hollister (2004) is the Publisher of BellaOnline Quotations Zine – A free newsletter for quote lovers featuring more than 10,000 quotations in dozens of categories like – love, friendship, children, inspiration, success, wisdom, family, life, and many more.... - January 5th
Who Gets the Tax Exemption for a Child of Divorce?Share the KnowledgeSummary: I am divorced, and my daughter lives with my ex. I pay nearly 100% of all expenses for my daughter, and certainly far more than half. I can take the tax exemption for my daughter, right? This is a very timely question. With tax season soon... - January 5th
Are Gambling Losses Tax Deductible?Share the KnowledgeSummary: My wife and I took a trip to Las Vegas this year, and while we did not go over our budget, we did suffer a bit of a loss at the blackjack table in the casino. I have been told by a friend that it may be... - January 5th
Marriage or Divorce – Check Your Social Security NumberShare the KnowledgeSummary: Newlyweds and the recently divorced should make sure that names on their tax returns match those registered with the Social Security Administration (SSA). https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cN7gcNXhf8k Join Our Dads Rights Email Community! G We respect your email privacy | Powered by AWeber Email Marketing DadsRights.org is always free,... - January 5th
Is His 401k Community Property?Share the KnowledgeDear Esq, My husband and I have been married for 21 years. We live in California, and I am considering a divorce. Is his 401K considered community property? What about our separate IRA accounts? Wondering — Dear Wondering, California is indeed a community property state. Generally speaking,...
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